The Mothers of the Village

I WANT TO SHARE MY THOUGHTS ON THIS GENERATION OF CHILDREN AND GRANDCHILDREN, THIS GENERATION THAT ARE KILLING AND BEING KILLED. THIS IS A VERY DISTURBING TIME FOR MANY OF US. WE FEEL HELPLESS AND HOPELESS FOR THESE CHILDREN, NO REAL HELP, IT SEEM AS THOUGH OUR SOCITY, DON'T WANT TO HELP US FIGURE THIS THING OUT.

I AM ONE OF THOSE THAT DO NOT BELIEVE IN POINTING THE FINGER AT OTHERS OUTSIDE OUR TRIBE. WE DO HAVE TO TAKE RESPONDSIBILITY FOR OUR ACTIONS AS PARENTS TO THESE CHILDREN, YEA I KNOW MANY PEOPLE ARE SAYING THOSE ARE NOT MY CHILDREN THAT ARE KILLING, WELL GUESS WHAT THEN YOUR CHILDREN ARE THE TARGET, SO IN ANY CASE ITS OUR PROBLEM, NOT ANY OTHER RACE. SO WE MUST LOOK FOR THE SOLUTION IN OUR TRIBE.

I ONCE ASKED GOD WHY ARE THESE CHILDREN KILLING, HE SAID THEY DO NOT KNOW ME, NO ONE TAUGHT THEM ABOUT ME. HE THEN BEGIN TO SHOW ME HOW ALOT OF THESE CHILDREN WERE BORN TO PARENTS THAT WERE TO YOUNG TO REALLY RAISE A CHILD PROPERLY. THE PARENTS DIDN'T HAVE AN WISDOM OR KNOWLEDGE TO PASS ON TO THE CHILDREN, THEY WHERE CHILDREN THEMSELF, IN MEDITATING ON THIS INFORMATION I BEGIN TO SEE HOW IF A CHILD 15-17 HAD A BABY THEN THE GRANDPARENT OF THAT CHILD WOULD PROBABLY JUST BE IN THIER EARLY 30's, AND IF THOSE OF US THAT ARE IN OUR 50's & 60's NOW LOOK BACK TO OUR 30's WE HAD NO REAL PATIENCE, WISDOM OR TIME TO BE TRYING TO RAISE A GRANDCHILD, WE ARE JUST INTO 10 YEARS RAISEING OUR OWN, WE ARE STILL MAKING MISTAKES OR RECOVERYING FROM THE ONES WE MADE IN OUR TWENTIES. FOR OUR CHILDREN TO BE MAKING US GRANDPARENTS WAS A BIT MORE THEN WE COULD BARE. (PLEASE UNDERSTAND THERE ARE EXCEPTIONS TO ANY RULE, SO I AM NOT ADDING EVERY YOUNG GRANDMOTHER IN THIS)

ANOTHER TRIBE PROBLEM WAS THESE ARE ALSO THE CHILDREN THAT COME FROM 2 OR 3 GENERATIONS OF NO FATHERS AT HOME, OR EVEN IN THEIR LIVES ON A REGULAR BASES. I AM NOT WRITTING THIS TO POINT FINGER OR BLAME, BUT THESE ARE FACTS IN OUR TRIBE. SO THESE CHILDREN ARE BEING RAISED BY MOTHERS AND FATHERS THAT HAVE ABANDONMENT ISSUES, LOW SELF WORTH, AND NO CLEAR DIRECTION OR KNOWLEDGE AS TO WHO THEY ARE. FOR THOSE OF YOU THAT HAVE NEVER BEEN THROWN AWAY BY A PARENT THAT IS SUPPOSE TO BE THE FIRST PLACE WE FEEL LOVE AND ACCEPTANCE, WE GET LOST IN THE FEELING THAT WE WERE NOT GOOD ENOUGH FOR OUR PARENT TO LOVE OR KEEP US. THIS FEELING PUTS A HOLE IN OUR SOULS, THAT WE CARRY AROUND WITH US UNTIL SOMEONE SEES OUR PAIN AND SEEK TO HELP US.

MOST TIMES WE MEDICATE OUR PAIN AND LIVE IN THIS PLACE OF ANGER AND HATE. BECAUSE WE CAN'T UNDERSTAND WHY THOSE THAT BIRTHED US DIDN'T WANT US. PLEASE UNDERSTAND THIS IS DEVASTATING FOR EACH GENDER, THE MOST IMPORTANT PERSON IN ANY CHILD'S LIFE IS THAT SAME SEX PARENT. WHEN EVER GOD'S PLAN IS NOT CARRIED OUT THE WAY HE SET IT UP, WE GET A DYSFUNCTIONAL VERSION OF HIS PLAN AND IT WILL NOT WORK WITHOUT HIS HAND IN IT, TO CORRECT IT.

SO THESE CHILDREN ARE BEING RAISED BY HURT, ANGRY AND HATEFUL PARENTS, WE CAN NOT GIVE WHAT WE DO NOT HAVE, SO MOST OF US HAD NOTHING GOOD OR POSITIVE TO GIVE TO OUR OFF SPRINGS THAT WE BROUGHT INTO THE WORLD IN OUR OWN DYSFUNCTION AND EMOTIONAL PAIN. SO THESE CHILDREN DID NOT JUST GET GOD, THEY DIDN'T GET LOVE, AND ANYTHING THAT DON'T GET LOVE DIE. SO WE WANT TO KNOW WHY THEY ACT LIKE THEY DO, WE SHOULD BE ITS NO WONDER THEY ACT LIKE THEY DO.

WE AS A TRIB HAVE TO COME TOGETHER AND HELP OUR CHILDREN, NO MORE TALKING ABOUT WHAT WHITE AMERICA DID OR DIDN'T DO TO OR FOR US, THEIR CHILDREN AREN'T DYING AT THE ALARMING RATE THAT OURS ARE. WE CAN'T EVEN KEEP THINKING THESE SO CALLED BLACK LEADERS CAN OR WILL HELP US, LOOK AT MOST OF THEM AND THEIR OFF SPRINGS, STEALING LYING AND LETING THE WHOLE TRIBE DOWN, BECAUSE WHEN THEY SO CALL MAKE IT, THEY WILL STAND WITH US FOR A HOT MINUTE THEN THEY GONE ONCE THEIR AGENDA IS MEET.

SO I CALL ON MY SISTERS I ONCE HEARD THAT THE WORLD WILL BE RULED OR RUINING BY THE APRON STRINGS, /AND THE HAND THAT ROCKS THE CRADDLE RULES THE WORLD, THERE IS SOME TRUTH IN THESE STATEMENTS. WE ARE THE RIGHT HAND OF GOD IN THE CREATING PROCESS, HE TRUST US TO DO THE RIGHT THING WITH THE LIFE HE LOANS US, (HE WANTS THEM BACK. ) THROUGH US TEACHING THEM OF HIM AND HIS WAYS. WE ARE THE SOFTNESS OF THE CREATION THAT GOD GAVE US A WAY TO LOVE THAT IS SO CLOSE TO THE WAY HE LOVES US. WE ARE GIVING THE SPIRIT TO NURTURE, THIS WAS SOMETHING THAT HE PLACED IN US WHEN HE CREATED US FROM THE FOUNDATION OF THE EARTH. WE HAVE TO SEEK OUR OWN HEALING IF AT ALL POSSIBLE, BEFORE WE BECOME MOTHERS WOULD BE GREAT. WE HAVE TO THINK MORE OF WHAT CAN WE GIVE TO THEM IF WE CHOSE TO BIRTH THEM OUT OF THE ORDER OF GOD. WE HAVE TO ADMIT AND OWN OUR ACTIONS TO GET PREGNANT BY MEN THAT HAD NO INTENTIONS ON BEING A FATHER, LETS JUST ADMIT AND ACCEPT WE DIDN'T GIVE HIM A CHANCE TO SAY I DON'T WANT TO FATHER A CHILD . WE HAVE TO BE MORE RESPONDSILBE AND PRESENT IN OUR OWN LIVES, HOW MANY TIMES WE WAS JUST ON A HOOK UP FOR THE NIGHT, AND OOPS WE DIDN'T USE PROTECTION, NOW WE WANT TO BLAME HATE AND DOG OUT THE MAN THAT WE DIDN'T EVEN TELL WE WAS UNPROTECTED. WE CAN'T BLAME OR EXPECT HIM TO PROTECT US, THATS OUR JOB IF WE GOING TO LAY DOWN WITH A MAN THAT DON'T EVEN ASK OR WRAP UP.

PLEASE KNOW THIS IS NOT TO JUDGE, SHAME OR DISRESPECT YOU, BUT WE AS WOMEN ARE MORE POWERFUL THEN WE GIVE OURSELF CREDIT FOR, BUT WE NEED TO USE OUR POWER TO RAISE AND HEAL OUR CHILDREN, AND OUR SELF. WHEN WE START TO DO OUR PART THE MEN WILL EITHER STAND WITH US OR GO AWAY, BECAUSE NO MAN HAS EVERY BEEN ABLE TO SHUT DOWN A WOMAN WITH A MISSION, CHECK YOUR HISTORY/BIBLE WOMEN, WE JUST HAVE TO FOCUSE OUR MISSION IN THE RIGHT DIRECTION. NOT ON SOMEONE ELSES SON THAT HAS ALREADY BEEN RAISED OR NOT, BUT AT ANY CASE HE IS NOT OURS TO RAISE. WE CAN NOT ALLOW OWER CHILDREN TO GO OUT AND KILL STEAL AND DESTROY AND COME GET UNDER THE SHEETS WE BUY, IF WE ARE OR FEEL POWERLESS THEN WE HAVE TO ASK FOR HELP, WE NEED TO FORM WOMEN GROUPS IN EVERY NEIGHBORHOOD, FOR SUPPORT AND PRAYER. GOD WILL LISTEN AND HEAL. I PROMISE YOU HE WILL. BUT WE HAVE TO SURRENDER AND SUBMIT TO GOD SO HE CAN COME IN OUR HOMES AND SCHOOLS, WE ARE VERY POWERFUL, THE MORE OF US THAT JOIN TOGETHER, WE CAN GET TOGETHER TO HAVE SCANDAL, HTGAWM, EMPIRE, HOUSEWIVES PARTIES AND BOOKS CLUBS AND GO TO THE STRIP JOINT , BUT WE CAN'T GET TOGETHER TO SAVE OUR BABIES!!. OUR NUMBER ONE JOB AS HIS HELP MATE IS TO RAISE THE CHILDREN, AND YOU CAN GONE WITH THAT I WORK, WE ALL WORK BUT GOD HAS GIVEN US THE ANOINTING TO RAISE OUR CHILDREN WE JUST HAVE TO PRIORITIZE.

I AM A MOTHER THAT WAS ON CRACK, AND WAS MARRIED TO A MAN THAT WAS ON HEROIN, HE IS DEAD, I WENT TO REHABE ABOUT 3 WEEKS AFTER I BURIED HIM AND SURRENDERED TO GOD, SOCIETY SAYS MY 4 CHILDREN SHOULD BE DEAD, DRUG DEALERS, IN JAIL, A WHORE OR MANY CHILDREN BY DIFFRENT MEN , BUT GOD TURNED THAT AROUND CAUSE I SUBMITED MYSELF TO HIM AND HIS COMMANDMENTS, THIS IS HOW I KNOW WE CAN CHANGE OUR CHILDRENS DESTINY.

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